Grow up Dirk.

"I don't want to talk right now."

"Ok"

Her reason for not wanting to talk probably had nothing to do with me.  But nevertheless, my great mood vanished and I was left wondering.  I logged myself off and went back to my workout.  I know the act of signing out was passive-aggressive, but I didn't care.  I was pissed and I wanted her to know it.  Perhaps I'm being childish.  What motivates me to act this way?  Perhaps I think her sour mood is about me.  It's my Damned insecurities. This type of behavior causes real problems in my life.

I logged back into the messaging system.  "I'm going back to bed" waited for me.  Her mood had nothing to do with me.  I need to grow up.