Can the Buddha help?

Think with purpose... That is my new mantra. I am trying so hard to pull myself out of this malaise and constant negative thoughts exacerbate my sullen mood. And, I have a lot of serious challenges that I should be contemplating instead. When I am out in public, my attention often drifts from woman to woman as they cross my path. The ones I find especially interesting for whatever reason tend to occupy my thoughts for a bit longer as I spin a mini fantasy involving me and her. These fantasies sometimes include intimacy but most often center around a lifestyle change where I am suddenly unburdened from all of my present day responsibilities and she and I dive into a whirlwind romance and live happily ever after; in an alternate universe of course. I am going to dig back into the teachings of the Buddha in search of ways I can take control of my life without medication. Just the overt act of trying to improve my situation is therapeutic.