Today, for the first time in months, I am writing this post from inside the coffee shop. The temperature has dipped into the forties and it is more comfortable sitting in the comfy chair by the front window.
While walking A this morning, B told me that the "friend" he was taking to the school dance this weekend was having second thoughts. She was going to hang out with a friend instead of attending the dance. Although B did not seem overly disappointed, I wonder how he really feels. He also asked my advice about another girl that he really likes who is apparently going to the dance with someone else. "She asked me why I was ignoring her" he said. "How would you respond Dad?" I replied "First I would consider my response carefully before I delivered it. Honesty is generally the best policy and I would probably tell her that you were disappointed that she was attending the dance with someone other than you; and that you just needed some space for a bit. If you really like her, remain persistent in your pursuit. High school relationships rarely last."
As Harry Chapin said, “I have never been a pick-em-up kinda guy” so I am not sure how good my advice is. He is a bright kid though so I am sure he will adapt to the situation.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
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