Showing posts with label Fathers and sons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fathers and sons. Show all posts

Monday, January 10, 2011

Movie day

Yesterday, B and I went to see the movie "The Fighter".  It was an excellent film that both of us thoroughly enjoyed.  My background  is not dissimilar (at least from a familial perspective)  from that of the lead character.  As such, I was once again reminded of my incredible good fortune.  Last night, B and I began to watch the HBO mini-series "Pacific".  B, noticing the aloofness of a Dad as he was dropping off his son at boot camp, initiated a discussion about the various types of father-son relationships.  I explained that back in the forties, many father's felt uncomfortable expressing emotion in front of the sons, preferring to remain stoic thus maintaining an illusion of control.  I enjoy talking with B and I believe that we have a great relationship due in part to my willingness to tell and show B exactly how I feel.